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Nov. 3rd, 2013 10:38 am So I was supposed to go to a Samhain ceremony on the 1st, but first, I messaged the friend (well, not really friend, but person I know who invited me to go to this)I was going with to firm up our plans and she was like "Oh! btw I can't find a sitter."
So my sad little brain immediately thinks, she completely forgot, she has no sitter because she didn't ask for one, she doesn't really want to go and she's wishing she'd never asked me. And I'm like, how the fuck do you wait until two days before the event to tell someone you essentially can't go? And if I hadn't asked her, when would she have told me?
So later on she was like oh, I forgot my daughter is going to a party, so I can go, but I can't go to the potluck. But then, it was my turn to let her down (and honestly I didn't even feel bad, because it was a legit excuse): My husband had just found out his grandmother is in the hospital and she put his grandfather in a nursing home. His family never talks to each other so he had no idea and apparently it's been like a month. So he drops everything to visit this grandmother who didn't even give enough shits to tell him she was in the hospital in the first place and that his grandfather was in a nursing home. THEN, my son got sick, so he couldn't go to the hospital with my husband so I stayed home with him while my husband went to the hospital.
The first thing I legit get invited to by someone other than family in, oh I don't know, YEARS, and I can't go.
Yeah I get that family is family, but when that family shits on you and only cares because you have their only grandson/great-grandson, it's not worth my time, IMO. Oh, and we all get to go to the hospital today and probably the nursing home too, because my son is better.
To top that off, I got my period. I want to shoot myself.
So my sad little brain immediately thinks, she completely forgot, she has no sitter because she didn't ask for one, she doesn't really want to go and she's wishing she'd never asked me. And I'm like, how the fuck do you wait until two days before the event to tell someone you essentially can't go? And if I hadn't asked her, when would she have told me?
So later on she was like oh, I forgot my daughter is going to a party, so I can go, but I can't go to the potluck. But then, it was my turn to let her down (and honestly I didn't even feel bad, because it was a legit excuse): My husband had just found out his grandmother is in the hospital and she put his grandfather in a nursing home. His family never talks to each other so he had no idea and apparently it's been like a month. So he drops everything to visit this grandmother who didn't even give enough shits to tell him she was in the hospital in the first place and that his grandfather was in a nursing home. THEN, my son got sick, so he couldn't go to the hospital with my husband so I stayed home with him while my husband went to the hospital.
The first thing I legit get invited to by someone other than family in, oh I don't know, YEARS, and I can't go.
Yeah I get that family is family, but when that family shits on you and only cares because you have their only grandson/great-grandson, it's not worth my time, IMO. Oh, and we all get to go to the hospital today and probably the nursing home too, because my son is better.
To top that off, I got my period. I want to shoot myself.
