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May. 3rd, 2013 03:26 pmOkay, I know I generally try to be positive but I'm just having a problem with a "friend" I have, we'll call her H. For a while I wasn't sure why she didn't have more friends. She seemed really nice and bubbly and positive and we became fast friends. We met first on twitter, I don't know how I found her but we're both nkotb fans so I was probably friends with one of her friends or maybe she added me. Anyway, I actually met her on Cruise 2012 after I had discovered that the "friends" I had originally met up with were not really my type of person. I happened to meet H on the beach the day they totally ditched me when they were walking down the beach and I stayed behind to buy a water and they walked off without me. I saw H and I said "Aren't you @(her twitter name) and she said yes and I introduced myself. It was a rare moment of outgoingness for me and I was forever glad I did it.
Until recently. She has just been super negative, talking about people behind their back, stalking her former friends who ditched her when she had a mental breakdown last year right after we got home from the cruise where I met her. And I can understand how pissed she'd be when she found out people she thought were her friends abandoned her when they found out she was not mentally stable. I mean how shitty is that, mental issues are like the number one issue in the country and yet people get treated like they have some rare contagious disease. But whatever.
So I can see how H would be pissed at these former friends but she kind of makes it her hobby to check in on their twitter timelines and tell me "Oh so and so says this" or "So and so looks too skinny these days" and I'm like, who freaking cares?
Then she even judges people she's still friends with. She's like "I have to warn you about _____, she seems to be a little obsessed with NKOTB. She said she hoped we'd run into Donnie when we go to Wahlburgers and Alma Nove (two restaurants that are in Massachusetts and owned by the Wahlbergs, we plan to go to them later this month when she and her friend come up for the concert)". So I'm thinking, so? I hope we run into him too! Or maybe one of the other guys! Why is this obsessive? It seems natural to me to hope to see one of the famous owners of a restaurant. It's not like she said "We should sleep outside the restaurants so we can maybe run into Donnie".
I just...don't know how to deal with this. She's staying in my town for a couple days around the concert so we can hang out and I hope she doesn't act like this. I just don't get how people can be so judgmental. And gee, I hope her friend isn't totally obsessed with NKOTB. That would be awful. LOL
Until recently. She has just been super negative, talking about people behind their back, stalking her former friends who ditched her when she had a mental breakdown last year right after we got home from the cruise where I met her. And I can understand how pissed she'd be when she found out people she thought were her friends abandoned her when they found out she was not mentally stable. I mean how shitty is that, mental issues are like the number one issue in the country and yet people get treated like they have some rare contagious disease. But whatever.
So I can see how H would be pissed at these former friends but she kind of makes it her hobby to check in on their twitter timelines and tell me "Oh so and so says this" or "So and so looks too skinny these days" and I'm like, who freaking cares?
Then she even judges people she's still friends with. She's like "I have to warn you about _____, she seems to be a little obsessed with NKOTB. She said she hoped we'd run into Donnie when we go to Wahlburgers and Alma Nove (two restaurants that are in Massachusetts and owned by the Wahlbergs, we plan to go to them later this month when she and her friend come up for the concert)". So I'm thinking, so? I hope we run into him too! Or maybe one of the other guys! Why is this obsessive? It seems natural to me to hope to see one of the famous owners of a restaurant. It's not like she said "We should sleep outside the restaurants so we can maybe run into Donnie".
I just...don't know how to deal with this. She's staying in my town for a couple days around the concert so we can hang out and I hope she doesn't act like this. I just don't get how people can be so judgmental. And gee, I hope her friend isn't totally obsessed with NKOTB. That would be awful. LOL
