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 I made a post a while ago requesting that people comment on my journal if they're reading it,  The truth is, I don't really expect that of you because then I'd have to hold myself up to that standard and I've realized I don't usually comment on things unless something really strikes me as OMG YES or OMG NO on my emotion meter.  Nothing feels more contrived than coming up with a comment on something you don't really have a comment for.  So don't worry about it, that was just my needy ego speaking.

I'll also admit I don't often read fanfic.  I don't expect you to read or like my NKOTB fanfic if I ever get into that again.  I might post it here just to have it somewhere but yeah, I know it's pretty insipid stuff if you aren't a fan so I don't care if you skip the whole thing.  Or it could be good for a laugh, so there's that. 




Date: 2013-01-08 06:57 am (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] seventhbard
What helps me that I occasionally do (ymmv, but maybe it could be useful sometimes) is when I'm feeling really anxious and like I need some reassurance, I actually make a post where I say something along the lines of "today I feel really insecure/anxious/whatnot and I could use some reassurance. you don't have to post a novel but if you see this would you mind leaving a few words? I just feel like I could use a little good wishes/support/whatev." I find in my case it's really empowering to be able to clearly articulate my feelings and needs and ask for what I want to meet them.

I don't tend to read fanfic of stuff unless I'm really into whatever it's of, or the blurb sounds too intriguing to pass up. I used to but lately I find fanfic doesn't do what it once did for me so much. So I feel you there. I remember I like NKOTB growing up... but I forget their names or anything about them. XD I was mostly into them because my sister was, I was only about 11 when they were big.

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