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Apr. 30th, 2013 02:09 pm I seriously feel like I've become darn unlikable! I've had some less than popular opinions, apparently, on this parenting board I visit and the spin-off facebook group a few of us formed. I feel like the odd one out (as usual)-They're for the most part really super smart, or they home school and run a day care, or have toddler twins plus a baby, or teenage kids plus younger kids, or their kids are geniuses... And I'm just this little dumpy woman with one kid and a husband, and I'm not working, not going to school, can't stand being around my kid or husband for more than a few minutes. So what do I do? Sometimes I get on a roll and I might pass judgement on things I don't truly understand. Or I have a different perspective.
Like seriously, I'm tired of this opinion that men who expect to have sex with their partners are pigs. Like women never get pissed off if they don't get any. Yes, women do tend to take care of the kids and do housework and cook while the man works. Or maybe the woman works and the husband stays home. Either way, usually both people are damn tired at the end of the day, so what is up with this double standard where men are not allowed to whine if they don't get enough sex but goodness knows that a woman can and will raise a stink (no pun intended) if she's horny and her husband's tired?
Please feel free to explain this to me. As I understand it, humans as a whole have a sexual need. Maybe I don't understand it, because I have very little of that need. I'm just not really sure why men who don't get enough sex are jerks for complaining about it. All women like to do is complain about how they're fat and nobody wants them and then they get a guy who actually wants them and they complain about it. I don't get it.
Like seriously, I'm tired of this opinion that men who expect to have sex with their partners are pigs. Like women never get pissed off if they don't get any. Yes, women do tend to take care of the kids and do housework and cook while the man works. Or maybe the woman works and the husband stays home. Either way, usually both people are damn tired at the end of the day, so what is up with this double standard where men are not allowed to whine if they don't get enough sex but goodness knows that a woman can and will raise a stink (no pun intended) if she's horny and her husband's tired?
Please feel free to explain this to me. As I understand it, humans as a whole have a sexual need. Maybe I don't understand it, because I have very little of that need. I'm just not really sure why men who don't get enough sex are jerks for complaining about it. All women like to do is complain about how they're fat and nobody wants them and then they get a guy who actually wants them and they complain about it. I don't get it.
